Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Reporting

So I ran four miles to the beach before playing volleyball for the "Volley and Thunder" team today. I didn't play that well. Not because I was tired of all the running beforehand, but because I haven't played volley in a while. The team members haven't played volley in quite some time too... and the results? Our team lost all six games today. It really wasn't that bad. Most of the games were close games. Just our execution didn't go as well as planned. I did manage to deliver one heck of a dangerously fast spike to one of our opposing teams. Sadly though, the enthusiasm of one point doesn't really win you games.

I'm back in my apartment now. Feeling not great but not terrible either after the game. Thank goodness the 500 days of summer original soundtrack was there in my mail box ;) As I am writing this entree, the songs are being copied into my iTunes. Now if only I didn't leave my ipod at work...

I received another letter in my mail box today. The letter looked pretty thick. Must be something important? It was. It was an invitation to Doug Duffy's wedding! This is my first time going to an American/Irish/Spanish wedding. I'm pretty psyched about this. Not only is this the first American/Irish/Spanish wedding that I'm going to, but this will be the first time I'll be going to a wedding inside a church. All those years of watching movies to see the bride and groom say "I do" and the Minister asking the audience "If there is anyone out there who believes that these two should not be joined in Holy Matrimony let him speak now forever hold their peace" moments are finally coming true.

By the way, Doug Duffy is one of Milliman's former employees. He studied accounting (big mistake), but he's extremely smart and was able to do all the actuarial stuff plus pass all of his CPA exams on his first try. It even seemed as if he really didn't study that much. But his dad is an FCAS, so I'm not shocked. Today, he's working as an accountant.

Norma, his bride to be is going to be a lawyer soon. She's been with Duffy for seven to eight years now. It makes me so happy to see couples who have been with each other for a long time getting married. Cause that's how it was for me and my wife.

My friend Dezerk told me that who you marry is exactly who you deserve. I totally agree with him. The Quran mentions something like this - "Good guys end up with good girls. And bad guys end up with bad girls." Duffy and Norma are good people. I wish them the very best for their upcoming wedding, and wish them better than the best for their future.

7 comments:

njahmat said...

Sometimes I'm good, sometimes I'm bad. I hope I get someone who's good, good to me. But bottom line is, I hope I get someone. Kisah putus cinta musim panas akan diceritakan to you, Adam.

I am going back to ChiTown on the 26th of September. I miss Chicago already.

Selamat berpuasa, and see you sooooon!

Anonymous said...

Thanks NJ! Selamat berpuasa to you too. Haha tell me about your kisah cinta when u get back.

btw i think u'll like the 500 days of summer original sound track. penuh dengan all those indie songs that you like.

adam

etc said...

quoted for great justice:

) الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ ۖ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ ۚ أُولَـٰئِكَ مُبَرَّءُونَ مِمَّا يَقُولُونَ ۖ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَرِزْقٌ كَرِيمٌ

surah annur: 24:26
Vile women are for vile men, and vile men for vile women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women; such are innocent of that which people say: For them is pardon and a bountiful provision.

the context of the verse, though, is when a person accused aishah of being with one sahabah, safwan. and God said unto them are innocent, irrespective of what the hypocrites say.

which is why i don't take it literally (but you are free to, if you so wish :p).

apologies and thanks to anonymous friend for supplying clarification.

Anonymous said...

haha. kau masih hafal surah yaasin tak amiaq?

adam

etc said...

ah, no! i fail. thought i had it down, then went to recite it and screwed up like halfway lol. that's like dosa tahap gergasi or something like that, isn't it? memorising then forgetting verses. omg i'm going to hell for this shit :(

Anonymous said...

haha i'm not so sure about dosa tahap gergasi. tapi time bulan ramadhan ni kan senang lepas tarawikh baca baca skit yaasin. cewahhh.

adam

etc said...

hahaha, look who's talking :p no worries man, target to memorise yasin and sajjadah by the end of ramadhan. make it happen.